HOW DO THEY DO IT
Today, after a VERY LONG TIME I received a non-reject email from one of my dream company's dream role. A non-reject email is as good as a reject email only difference being you have a 50% chance of getting another role within the company. It's tiring!! Interviewing is tiring. With a 18 month old baby my body is giving up. My brain is failing me occasionally. My job isn't that interesting anymore. Yes, I took on this job for the money and for the slight flexibility with balancing being a mother and wife (the Indian way); however I can't keep going - I realized I need to love my job. I need to love what I do and whom I do it for besides the compensation.
I am tired to even type this but I need to let out my frustration, my anger, my disappointment and my slow fading relevance amongst my peers.
You know I am so reverse. When I was young and had a lot of freedom and time I didn't focus on my career. Now, my husband and family think I am less focused on being a mom and more focused on being a corporate leader. I feel bad at my core to some extent. I am partly responsible for not speeding up career prospects when I didn't have familial responsibilities but also what if I am focused on it now? Does it make me such a bad person? I know a lot of people who have been extremely smart at it - but not me. The point is I am not them. I failed to be them.